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puregurl77
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| 10/28/2011 9:17 PM |
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Hi!
There's a guy I like quite a bit. We slow-danced together (both our first time..awww  ) and every time I see him he smiles at me. But at that same dance, he danced with two other girls. It was a homeschool dance (meaning, not very many guys go) so some of the guys are nice enough to dance with girls. I first met this guy at a homeschool progressive dinner and he wouldn't take his eyes off me the whole night. Do you think he likes me even though he danced with two other girls? I may be overthinking this...but I'd like to know for sure. I often over-think this, but I'd like some reasurrance. I really like this guy, like I said. So yeah.
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cassie14
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| 10/29/2011 4:12 PM |
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| he might like you sounds like he does but he might wana be friends first before you go into dating i dont know i would say become his friend first and see what happens |
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*judge no one* |
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puregurl77
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| 10/29/2011 6:20 PM |
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| I didn't mention anything about dating, and I'm not wanting to either. I was talking about him liking me. Sorry, if I didn't make that clear enough! |
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Lucky Albatross
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| 10/30/2011 3:52 AM |
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| Yes, yes and yes, this guy likes you! I would be suprised if he didn't! |
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One step at time,
I trust these feet of mine,
To carry me on to where I belong.
Mike Zito |
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JoJo
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| 10/30/2011 3:56 AM |
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even though he was dancing with other girls??
IDK I know ladies men who are like that... even homeschooled ones! I used to be head over heels for one... that wasn't the best idea 
but... i honestly dont know... I'd say don't read into things, if he likes you, he should hopefully be man enough to actually tell you, eventually... so. until he does, treat him like a brother in Christ! |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
JoJo |
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Lucky Albatross
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| 10/30/2011 4:38 AM |
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He wasn't staring at the other girls, though. Unless it was a 'looking at you like a piece of meat' kind of checking you out, that's kind of a strong indicator. The constant smiling is another.
Tell you what: Next time you see this guy, call him out on his staring. If gets a bit embarassed and flustered, that's a good sign. Also, he have trouble talking to you? Stumbling over his words? Stuttering? There's another one. He try any moves on you? If not, good sign.
I'm telling ya. My intuition is saying good things here! |
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One step at time,
I trust these feet of mine,
To carry me on to where I belong.
Mike Zito |
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puregurl77
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| 10/30/2011 2:36 PM |
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| Yeah, when he was coming to talk to me he was trying not to be obvious and he was wandering around and looking about and then he came to talk to me...he doesn't stumble over his words though...but I don't know if his awkwardness in that respect is a sign. |
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Lucky Albatross
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| 11/01/2011 2:01 AM |
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| Is he just naturally awkward around people or is it particular to you? That's the cinch for me. If he acts noticably different around you alone, it's a VERY, VERY strong sign this guy likes you. We guys aren't complicated creatures, and we frankly can't hide it well when we really like someone. |
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One step at time,
I trust these feet of mine,
To carry me on to where I belong.
Mike Zito |
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puregurl77
Posts:35
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| 11/01/2011 6:10 PM |
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| He's pretty outgoing (in comparison to me) and he gets pretty awkward around me. He's certainly not very smooth or subtle around me..that's for sure. So you think he might like me? |
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Lucky Albatross
Posts:176
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| 11/01/2011 9:11 PM |
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| It would come as a shock to me if he didn't! |
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One step at time,
I trust these feet of mine,
To carry me on to where I belong.
Mike Zito |
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JoJo
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| 11/02/2011 4:43 AM |
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Lucky, bear in mind, sometimes us "love blinded" girls can take things the opposite way of what they were... I say this from experience... like this one guy I was interested in, he'd "go out of his way to talk to me" (or so it seemed) and "always pick me for camp games" or "talk to me about all his issues and things" and I took those all as signs... but looking back I think I saw them as attempts to get my attention, when in fact, they weren't at all and he didn't like me and is now married to someone else haha. and at the time, I was just like puregirl, and I thought exactly what she's thinking...
My point being, alot of times us girls read into things ALOT and turn them into what we think are signs when they aren't...
that being said... they could be signs, I'm not saying you're wrong @ both of you... but I'm saying, girls do tend to get guys signals wrong and then (if anyone has seen my very first topic on here you'll get what I mean) we describe what we think we're seeing and the guys on here say "oh yes he likes you, thats what I'd do..." and then it turns out us girls read it wrong in the beginning and they weren't signals at all... |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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puregurl77
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| 11/02/2011 4:38 PM |
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| Okay, thanks Lucky! |
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puregurl77
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| 11/02/2011 4:41 PM |
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It could be JoJo...but I tend to usually have an idea..but it's a very primal idea because I'm not a guy. I've learned from mistakes of taking things in the wrong way, and I learned from that one real quick.
I'll be seeing this guy tomorrow, so maybe I'll probably have some more information that could be hints/clues/signs.
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JoJo
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| 11/03/2011 5:14 AM |
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heya, haha yeah, sorry... I was trying to say that guys shouldn't take everything all girls say as actual fact...
THAT in mind... sometimes we are right, and sometimes we're wrong... so it could be either way |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.
God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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puregurl77
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| 11/03/2011 3:28 PM |
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Yeah, I agree. Yeah, it could.
I'll be seeing him soon...so we shall see. |
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Lucky Albatross
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| 11/03/2011 4:14 PM |
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I could speculate on 'What If's' all day; I just go by what I read! Could I be wrong? Yes. I don't believe I am though, based off of what you gave me and how I and guys I know have acted when they are attracted to someone. You don't strike me as hopelessly pining for this guy , but I ask you puregurl: Do you believe your attraction to this guy has clouded how you see him to the
extent Jo is mentioning? |
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One step at time,
I trust these feet of mine,
To carry me on to where I belong.
Mike Zito |
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puregurl77
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| 11/03/2011 7:25 PM |
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Yeah, I'm not hoplessly pining for this guy. I am attracted to him, but I'm not obsessed.
No, I don't believe so. I don't try and make things happen, if there's no attraction there, it's just a simple crush and I move on; BUT when I feel like a guy is attracted to me as I am to him, it's not just a simple little crush (I don't mean dating, I mean like a big crush type thing).
In fact, I'm pretty darn sure he likes me. Today, when I saw him (we have guitar lessons right after each other) he quickly looked outside. He had looked outside quickly, exclaimed that his mom wasn't there and said he would wait there (smiled at me when he said that) and then his brother said that their mom was driving up right then. He looked kinda embarrassed and then left.
Is this a sign, as well?
(By the way, I appreciate you guys' advise a LOT!!! Thanks!!! )
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JoJo
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| 11/04/2011 6:33 AM |
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haha yeah Lucky I was refering to my topic called "help, what do I do?" haha look it up and read what I first wrote and tell me how you'd interperet that (btw the topic is inactive, ie I don't need answers for it as it's not an issue anymore, but I'd like to see your conclusion, maybe on this topic as I don't want that one revived )
BUT that being said...
I could speculate (as any of us could) about this guy of yours, but in reality everyone reacts differently to different situations...
like I aparently had a "Moment" with some dude and a guy friend said he definitely liked me, and well, nothing came of it (thank God ) but yeah, so just cuz a guy reacts in a way that everyone else thinks he likes said person, it might not be the case (of course, usually they're right... but not always)
arg I'm not even answering the question lol. I honestly couldn't give you an answer based on the info... just cuz in my experience, it's not enough to tell... but idk, Lucky could be right... until he actually tells you though, I couldn't definitely say that he likes you haha. and I don't wanna give you false hope... cuz I know false hope sucks when you realise it's not real  and now that I've sounded all depressed...
IDK enjoy your friendship and treat it as such until he tells you differently, but most importantly, enjoy what you have atm. you only get to be young once, just don't do things you'll later cringe at haha. |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.
God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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puregurl77
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| 11/04/2011 6:26 PM |
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| I'm not getting false hope, I know it may not be the case but that's doesn't bother me. This guy REALLY seems to act like he likes me, so I think so as well. I don't think I'm giving myself false hope and I don't think either of you guys are either. |
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Lucky Albatross
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| 11/05/2011 2:47 AM |
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So, I went ahead and checked out the post, Jo.
You had it BAD for this guy, didn't you? Your post just screamed it at me! My 'professional opinion' : I think you weren't used to having a guy outside of your circle of friends giving you that kind of attention and you didn't how to interpret it. I know I've been a sucker for a pretty face before! As far as whether or not I would have said he liked you, simple talking does not a crush make. I would have pressed you over any other 'signs' he potentially could've shown. Just like you couldn't hide your feelings for the guy in your post, he wouldn't have been able to hide it either if the feelings were mutual.
My thoughts anyhow!
PS: How does it feel to be one of the few original members still around? I noticed it was one of the first, your posting! |
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One step at time,
I trust these feet of mine,
To carry me on to where I belong.
Mike Zito |
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